"In motherhood, we are almost always trapped for having breasts. And trapped for not having them"

The author reflects on the contradictory pressures that mothers face regarding breastfeeding. The title suggests that women are criticized both for breastfeeding and for not breastfeeding, creating a constant trap. Motherhood is described as an experience marked by impossible expectations to fulfill. The author questions whether perfect breastfeeding exists, noting that in motherhood what was considered a virtue yesterday can quickly become an excess.